UHNW and HNW Women:Succeeding In Steps To Manage Life Onslaughts

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Succeeding In Steps To Manage Life Onslaughts...



and wanting success in YOUR own way, in your life, from this moment onwards. So now ask yourself, are you able to see, distinguish or specify the life onslaughts that are causing levels of degrading impacts to your reality, on your day to day professional, personal and social journey right now?


Being affluent does not mean that the onslaughts of life are halted. The struggles continue particularly if the mindset is wavering, weak or filled with anxiety based decision-making. In addition to the mindset and beliefs running in circles like hamsters running around on a wheel. Peddling hard, yet going nowhere. Your primary Achilles heel in your private life, social life, professional life. You cannot seem to get a grip on your direction for one reason or another.

You are affluent so why should anyone care about how you feel. You have everything. For many it seems as though you are seeking sympathy. You have no worries. You are not suffering. You are affluent. Your hardships are nothing compared to that of ordinary hard working people. Homeless people. Struggling people. This is a constant conversation going on in your head. This is how you believe that members of the public view you. How, possibly, some members of your professional team think about you. You have everything therefore you are well. Why should anyone ask you “How are you feeling?” What makes you so special to warrant the concern? This is the view that you imagine from the outside looking in on your luxurious lifestyle.

For you as an affluent woman. A High Net Worth woman. An Ultra High Net Worth woman. Things are commencing to go wrong. All you can see are stormy clouds coming your way. Bedtime is more sleepless than peaceful. You hold on to yourself for comfort. There is a chill within you. You close your eyes to find some peace, yet no tranquility arrives with which to provide solutions as to why you are feeling this way. There is a hollowness spreading across your life. You find yourself in sorrow. You find yourself with thoughts of self-destruction. Either of yourself or whatever it is that you are working on. You grow tired and wary of things quickly and you want to shut it down quickly. It holds no pleasure or solution for you. It lingers like a rancid fart-bomb in a spaceman's suit. You are making yourself ill, or your work is making you feel ill.

Time passes by and the stormy clouds now hang over you. All you seem to attract now are naysayers or hangers on. People who are feeding your uncertainty. People who are telling you lies. People who are stoking up your mental illness. People who are keeping you hanging on. You need to get away from these people but the addiction to them is overwhelming. You feel as though you owe them something for one reason or another.

Or you feel that you are being forced to work with this particular team of people because you need to get a project delivered. On time. To deadline. At cost. Your ability to aligning your mind, body and soul with this team is challenging. Something about this team of people unnerves you, yet it is too late to change them. They say all the ‘right’ things to you. Things that you want to hear. Yet you feel as though they are tripping you up and causing your demise in the project. You feel as though you are drowning. Yet people around you ignore the elephant in the room and do not ask you “So how do you feel that things are going?” They are simply not interested in your well-being or what you think, or indeed believe. They are only considering themselves, their promotions in life and your downfall.

Trying to manage your life’s onslaught is like trying to control a torrent of water. You feel as though you are drowning during the day with all of your responsibilities. You feel as though you are drowning during the night with all of your thoughts haunting you. People lean on you and you carry their weight. How much longer can this last? For all kinds of reasons people hold out their hands to you as beggars. How much more can you give? You place the welfare of others before you. Why are you turning a blind eye to your own wellness? Why are you acting in denial of the help that you need?

The storm hanging over you gets stronger and you are paddling desperately to keep afloat. In mind, body and soul. Professionally. Socially. Privately. Staying up at night with the distraction of the television or the radio keeping the voices in your mind from coming forward. Your anxiety increases and your short temper grows. The false people around you, that say they care, do not treat you kindly. No matter what you do. Yet on one level you pretend that you need them, otherwise the silence in your life would be too overwhelming. You know that you need a way out of this situation. You need to aim for the light at the end of the tunnel, but the light is being hidden by so much clutter in your life. Dissolve the clutter and the way becomes clearer to the solutions that you are seeking.

The thought that perhaps being within a real, true, loving and warm relationship would be useful in trying to manage what it is that you are going through. That you can use that emotional support to see you through the storms of life. There are days when a simple hug or cuddle is all that you need. Just that human touch, that is sincere and honest. Real and true to you. Steadfast in words, emotions and actions. Enabling your mind, body and soul. As being able to love yourself and whom you are right now is not an option that you can do in order to manage your life's onslaughts. You need someone to help you clear the clutter in your life and succeed in managing it. It is too hard to do it all on your own, particularly when those around you want you to fail.




Succeeding in steps to manage your life's onslaughts.

You tell yourself how fortunate and contented you are in your luxury. That it suits you. That you worked incredibly hard for it (Yes, you did. You certainly did.) That you will fight to maintain it (Yes you will. You will defend yourself to maintain as much as possible. Poverty does not suit you.) That you look at yourself with different eyes (Yes you do. There are days that you love being you; the real true you. Then there are days when you beat yourself up over remnants of the past that cannot be scrubbed from your memory; they act as hauntings within your mind.) That you comprehend yourself differently in order for some sort of sanity.

The one thing that you understand is that you have to be careful, as fate may turn against you and determine that you have to journey the losing streak. Fate has a helping hand if you hand it your walking away shoes. So be sure in strength and commitment that you want to take the steps to managing your life's onslaughts. Especially the destructive onslaughts with yourself and the team of people that you work with.

So, how is it going for you with your mind, body and soul onslaughts?

How are you enabling YOUR upper hand in curtailing unwanted aspects within your daily life? Preparing yourself to gain success with the removal of professional, social and personal blocks one step at a time and with surety?


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