UHNW & HNW Women: Succeeding to Separate From Tormentors & Untie the Knot

UHNW and HNW Women
Succeeding to Separate From Tormentors & Untie the Knot

Living in affluence does not mean following or obeying the mainstream tribe of affluence. It means embracing YOUR difference & dealing with the calling of abundance from day to day.

Join today’s conversation on why you as an Ultra High Net Worth (UHNW), High Net Worth (HNW) or affluent professional woman should look carefully at your situation and take the most appropriate risks that you feel you would be able to handle. Time is of the essence for you. You want to achieve as much as possible as the years fly by. You are getting older and you feel there is still so much that you want to do before your time is up.

Mingled into this are the expectations of others. The others who are YOUR life partner (husband, fiance, boyfriend, gentleman friend, wife, girlfriend, lover, lady friend). The others who are YOUR family (near and distant, bloodline, in-laws and step family). The others who are YOUR ‘friends’. The others who are YOUR colleagues. The others who are stakeholders in YOUR life.

You are an UHNW, HNW or affluent professional woman and you have experienced a myriad of life trials and tribulations. You have been through levels of hate, stress, anger, self loathing, emotional upheaval, tears and tantrums. You have also danced along your life journey in the giddiness of joy, happiness, affection, glee, love, elation and adoration.

So, you are what you are and that is an affluent woman. You are shy or an introvert. Perhaps with low level autism. You live in an affluent home. You live an affluent lifestyle. You have weight fluctuations. You have dietary impulses. You have relationship quandaries. Yet presently you are dealing with a situation that is causing you some concern as an affluent housewife. You are thinking about your worth in your relationship. That thought entered your head at the start of your role as an affluent, independent minded individual. You have a brain, you have constructive ideas, you have valid thoughts, you have your ways. Yet you have tormentors that you live with who are trying to make you do as you are told. Who are trying to control you because you are a woman. That you want to be accepted as having valid conversations as that of men, is frowned upon. You are a woman and you have to know your place in society. Whether you are married or single. So today; as every other day, this is where you find yourself. Considering a change. Considering a release from something that is not sitting well within your role as an affluent independent individual.

YOUR ACTION IN CONNECTION TO SOCIAL ISSUES

As a professional affluent woman, HNW/UHNW woman when pushed to a social issue you tend to lean towards peaceful channels to obtain change in the said unjust social issue. You do this; in the main, because it affords you a safeguard from government retaliation. A government retaliation that is increasing and encroaching on the free will of citizens. That you know this freedom to affect social change is relatively easier to do in Western societies. However, if you as an affluent woman have a residence in a country of your birth that is not following a democracy similar to that of a Western society, but your country of birth is in a country that has a culture of femicide, then you have to consider other ways of getting involved with other women who are seeking to draw attention to this plight; and other plights similar to this that affect the growth of women in society. Safety is key to you in order for you to help your chosen specific social movements. You have a propensity to determine as many risks as possible and act accordingly with the information. I coach women as you and as a member of your support team, this is often a subject that comes up when you feel incensed by social issues. Although I must say that a few affluent women do push back in the most unlikely of ways, because for them change moves too slowly.

WHEN ARE YOU READY TO COMMENCE UNTYING YOUR KNOT?

I recently read an article concerning the exploration of a film entitled ‘Untying the Knot’ by Bangladeshi-Canadian director Zana Sammi lifting the lid on highly educated, professional affluent women who are struggling in abusive relationships. It is a thought provoking documentary. Again this ties in with a couple of articles that I had written touching on this subject dealing with relationships as a professional, affluent woman, HNW/UHNW woman. One of those articles that I had written was in July 2018, entitled 'UHNW and HNW Women Being Different and Embracing Their ‘Mongrel Identity' With RISE and Succeed’

Public opinion is that once a woman attains a highly educated life with an affluent life, or procures wealth through marriage or family position, that all is rosy. That they have no problems. That they have no problems with confidence. That they have no issues with moving in affluent societies. Public opinion is blinkered and sits on the belief systems of the person looking on from afar.

The article that I had read concerning a review of ‘Untying the Knot’ follows four highly educated and affluent women of South Asian descent. One woman is a Law Executive. One woman is a Banker and is forced to leave her job and do something less financially profitable AND look after the family home dutifully, whilst her husband continues life as a Banker. One woman becomes self employed in the broadcasting sector and this impacts on various family relationships. One woman is affluent and marries into affluence where she chooses to live a relatively liberal life, a liberal life that causes relationship turmoil.

A KEY MESSAGE FROM WOMEN WHO ARE SIMILAR TO YOU

A key message of this film is that many highly educated, affluent women, endure shattered lives through their relationships with their immediate family, their in-laws and the community that they sit within. Yet they must find the strength, confidence and belief that what they are doing in trying to turn their life around from a less than mutually beneficial relationship situation is a ‘must do’. This is in order to have self preservation. A self preservation that requires a real, honest, inner conversation. A self preservation that is in recognition of their ‘upper hand’ (an upper hand that is often dampened down by the influence of others around them). A self preservation that reaches out towards their mind, body and soul connectivity and alignment. A self preservation that leads these professional, affluent, or HNW/UHNW women to a life that helps to resolve the shattered pieces of their life. A self preservation that seeks to unshackle from life tormentors.

People are like energy and energy prefers to be where it is being best treated.

WHERE IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP TORMENT?

As you sit there reading this, do not make the mistake and believe that relationship torment is simply the prevail of poor, uneducated, marginalised and disenfranchised people in Third World countries or foreigners in impoverished/social benefit assisted livelihoods of Western societies.

→ Relationship torment happens to professional women in aristocratic /well connected families.

→ Relationship torment happens in upper and middle class societies.

→ Relationship torment happens to older Caucasian women.

→ Relationship torment happens to those sought after trophy wives who are tall, blonde, blue-eyed women.

→ Relationship torment happens in affluent Switzerland, France, The Netherlands, Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Iceland, Finland, Great Britain, South Africa, USA, New Zealand, Australia, Japan, Bahrain, United Arab Emirates, Brazil, Argentina, Russia. Plus more!!!

→ Relationship torment happens behind those beautifully maintained properties with security gates.

→ Relationship torment happens in those desirable flats that have private concierges.

→ Relationship torment happens in the most desirable parts of a city, of a town, of a countryside.

→ Relationship torment happens to educated, professional, affluent women, HNW/UHNW Women who are seeking help to separate from tormentors and untie the knot.

If you are feeling ‘so-so’, or, not coping well over the Winter season as you head into the mish-mash of festivities and invitations that have already commenced, through having risen within the status of being a HNW, UHNW or affluent professional woman; in addition to handling being different as your place in society changes, drop me an email. At this time of the year how are you feeling about the relationship with your own Self? The most important relationship in your life. How is that going?

“Ladies if it is getting hard for you, contact me. Come and contact me. I am here for you.” Now that you are here with me ask. Simply ask. Jay at RISE for women coaching. Enable your upper hand to work for you when you press the button.